There are various perceptions about the behaviour of men and women. This is because men are wired differently from women. This means that men and women cannot totally understand each other. Well that may also be true when it comes to sex.
However, there are various sex tricks that many men wish women are aware of. You want to know what is on his mind? Then read on.
1. Men are more than just their penises
While the penis gets lots of attention during sex, it is erroneous to believe it is the only erogenous part of the man. Men have various erotic zones other than the major sexual organ.
There are several areas that men may want women to touch including the chest, face, and inner thighs. Some guys like it when their testicles are gently fondled. Slightly stimulate the area between the anus and scrotum and see how wild your man will become.
2. Guys fear intimacy
Research indicates that men are more expressive and affectionate than girls during their younger formative years. As men, however grow into adulthood, they become less expressive because of social expectations.
A woman must, therefore, understand when his partner is not expressive in bed. Men often find it hard to express their feelings and what they want in bed.
3. Men like to be eulogized
Men are built with ego and their libido consumes them to a point where they have no self-consciousness when it comes to sex. Men are, however, similar to women when it comes to compliments as it serves as catalysts of their sexual ability.
Consider eulogizing your man for his sexual prowess and skills, before going to the bedroom and after. Men are sensitive about their belly, the size of their “organs”, their receding hairline, and other bodily features. Be therefore, extra careful not to comment insensitively about their insecurities.
4. Men like it when women talk
Being mute in bed is a great turn off for most men as it makes the sex boring and uneventful. By talk, men expects talking dirty or instructing them what to do and praising them as they go along. Talking does more than stimulate men.
As funny as it may sound, a woman’s words have a way of making a man feel like he is a mighty ma at battle even if he is just the regular man on the street.
5. Men value sex
The cure to men’s intimacy issues most times lies in some throw me down sex. Sexologists reveal that men love it when women enjoy raw sex. They want women to feel it and not just endure it for their egos. Sometimes, all a man wants is the chance to ravish his woman.
6. Men enjoy the chase
By nature, men are hunters and a good quest puts them in the mood. Let the man court you and make him desire you. The key to emotional intimacy is being close to your partner.
Maintaining the sexual desire, however, requires a certain degree of space. You can achieve this balance with your man by having separate sexualities. This involves having a sex life that does not betray your partner.
7. Men love fantasies
The bedroom is a man’s domain where he can be anything he wants to be. Most men would want to share their fantasies, but are often afraid that they will be judged by the women folk. Your man may really love it if you reveal your secret fantasies.
You can even make a game out of it. First, promise not to pass judgement then write down scenarios that turn you on and keep them in a box. Pick one paper next time you get cozy and try to fulfill his fantasy.
These sex tricks are capable of improving and spicing up your sex life if followed and applied to your life as a woman.
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