When it comes to sex, men sometimes found themselves in positions where they ask myriads of questions.
Questions such as: How come my woman doesn’t want to have sex more often? How can I convince her that MORE sex is better than less? Do women want sex as much as men do? And if YES, how come my girlfriend, wife or lover always seems not to be in the mood? Do any of the above questions sound familiar?
Chances are that the answer to the last question is yes.
What most people failed to realize is that men and women both crave sex in equal amounts. The difference between the sexes is more in what turns us on, and what motivates us to want to make love, and not who wants it more.
Before I dive into reasons why your woman is less interested in sex and what to do about it, let me give you some shocking facts about women and sex.
Women are more cerebral when it comes to sex:
Women have emotional wants and needs, and cognitive motivations to make love as well.
The impulses of men during sex are mostly biological, with the need to ejaculate, or to “release” much bigger driver than it is for women.
Women Love To Climax
In addition, women love to reach orgasms, climax and release! It is not not only men affairs. However, women’s reason for sexual intrrcourse is often largely for emotional, and hormonal reasons that men don’t share or do in very minute way.
So, is your woman less interested in sex than you are? Here are 3 quick ways to persuade her to have more sex, especially if she’s the type who needs a lot of convincing!
1. Convince her that sex is a great natural antidote to insomnia
One of the biggest health related challenges women over the age of 18 face is insomnia. And when you look at moms, lack of sleep, or difficulty sleeping is often the number one challenge they face!
Simply put, an orgasm a day is far better night time sleep medicine than any over the counter potion or pill. What more? It’s one that will leave your woman feeling better in the morning to boot!
2. Sex is good for her brain, too!
Sex is very good for the brain. Why? It reduces stress hormones like cortisol, which lead to inflammation, irritation and difficulty thinking as well. As a matter of fact, the feel good chemicals that sex (and orgasm) generate in the brain, are better than most medications as well. Oxytocin, which is generated when we hug, kiss or connect skin to skin with another human being, is often called the “love hormone” for it’s transformative brain and behavior benefits.
3. Sex is great exercise!
A lot of women I know spend a lot of time lamenting that they don’t have more time to work out. The good news is that 15 minutes of sex can be as good of a workout as 60 minutes of walking.
And if she is able to climax, an orgasm not only burns energy, it helps strenghthen her kegals, abominal muscles and entire “core” as well. If you are REALLY good in bed, not only will your woman having amazing orgasms while getting a killer workout every night, she’ll find you much more fun too.
I do hope I have enlightened you on how to get your woman answer yes to making love whenever she is less interested in sex.
Till I come your way in my next post, don’t forget to drop comments and share this article as you could be helping someone.